I have a weird question ... how long the prelude would be?!

Is it so important?!

Is it really necessary?!

Do we really have to embrace with pleasure the prelude?!

Well .... many just avoid it.

I've heard lots of others saying that it's just ... useless.

I had moments in life when I believed into the role of the prelude ... but also hated it.

Today ... i just have a funny saying ... long prelude ... short sex.

I say it ... to many of my friends and i really believe it.

Well ... what i really want to say using the word ... prelude ... is that we delay too much the start of the relationship ... not allowing ourselves to connect for real ... spiritually .... physically .... and mentally.

 

We play ... too much ... psychological games forgetting we need to also experience ... the story itself.

Today ... i see all ... as a self sabotage.

I understand the trend exists ... and maybe it's just a psychological game ... delaying all till the moment when we actually understand ... who that person with who we want to be ... is.

But ... all we do ... delaying the synchronising of energies... is to waste the chance of being together.

... for real.

Most probably ... the prelude is indeed a game .... but we don't know when to stop it ... and ...

 

 

 

 

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